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Shamima Lone stands with her mother at Miss Crab on Ponsonby Rd in Auckland, New Zealand. It is one week after the Christchurch terror attack. Later it would be confirmed 51 men, women and children were shot dead as they prayed on Al-Jumah, meaning the day of congregation, and Friday in Arabic. For Muslims, it is a holy day.  The shooter would become the first person ever to go to prison for life in New Zealand, without parole. He will not be named here, but it is clear he picked that day with hate in mind; streaming the shooting live on Facebook. The youngest shot, just three-years-old.  In Auckland, encompassed in the shell-shock from New Zealand’s southern island, women of all ethnicities sort fashion to show solidarity with New Zealand’s Islamic community. Worldwide, Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern received criticism and praise for putting on a headscarf. At Miss Crab, Shamima was part of a team put together by The Love Movement, an Auckland based fundraising organisation that aids communities hit by devastating events like the shooting or the Indonesian earthquakes.   On their event page, they wrote, “Our Muslim sisters have spoken to us of the discrimination they still face while wearing a hijab and the elevated fear they have been experiencing simply leaving the house with their hair covered.. In abundance, Shamima, her mother and women from the Auckland Muslim community donated scarves to the cause. Something special Shamima’s mum was able to gift women who came to the #headscarfsforharmony event, was the knowledge of Noor. Meaning ‘the light’, it is said to be the glow that radiates from the face when a woman wears a hijab.  Shamima’s sister-in-law, Rebekah Bristow said at Miss Crab, “For Shamima, when she’s wearing a headscarf or a hijab, she’s had a lot of racist remarks and been discriminated against. “It’s important for us non-Muslim white women to really acknowledge the ease at which we can wear this,” Rebekah said. Rebekah Bristow and Shamima Lone, Miss Crab Ponsonby, March 2018It is March 2018, New Zealand’s staunch attitude that “racism does not exist here” is about to be exposed for the lie it is. So violent in its silence, racist people here, will smile in your face while they insult you, these are the type of scenarios Shamima has lived through. Born in Auckland, at 38, these days she does not wear a hijab unless it is to a funeral. “I wore a hijab from 14 to when I got married at 22, then after I got divorced I transitioned out of it wearing hats and stuff like that. “I just wanted to experience a different kind of experience. Back in those days, as soon as someone non-Muslim meets you, that’s all they want to know about you. The conversation is never around anything other than your religion or headscarf, you’re just so absolutely seen as that person. “Auckland uni can be quite isolating, you just go to classes with 100s of people and you don’t get to chill with anyone. I’d catch my bus from Queen St. People would just come up and scream shit at me at the university, like terrorist or whatever. It was so hard.” “Yeah, it was a very depressing period of my life.” Just before Covid-19 2020, Shamima married a Kiwi. He understood for Shamima to stay connected to her family, he’d need to convert to Islam, so he did. Shamima says for people of the Islamic faith, dating in New Zealand is a tricky ground. “You know you can’t date anyone, or hold hands with someone,” she said. “Growing up you’d have to date very respectful people who would try and understand where you’re coming from because I’m not trying to offend that person, I’m trying not to get in trouble with my family.” “We talked about it a lot, getting married would have to be in a way that my family would accept it because I thought about what it would be like if they were not to accept it and how I would be outcast and lose t

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In this modern era most of people become so pathetic, more realistic, love money and secular. let’s define what is secular? Secular or Secularism means separated between life and religion. It means you just pray in Mosque but the way you live just like free as a bird. No rules. That’s secular. Well let’s back to the topic why muslim girls wear hijab? If I give you some verses in the qur’an, I know you won’t believe it. So I will tell you here. Being Muslim is not only embrace a religion but also know what to “Do” and leave what the ‘Don’t. it means we have some consequences in this life. Don’t you know being a muslim is not only about pray in the mosque, Fasting in Ramadhan or celebrating Eid Mubarak. But to be a muslim with the rules. I believe that we born in this world is not only for living it free and up to you. We have some rules. Islam gives us the complete rules even you never imagine it that exist because Islam is the way of life so not only believe in Allah but also to do what He want us to do. One of His order is Wearing Hijab. Why I have to? Well, back to the consequences that we believe in Islam, We believe in Allah and Allah told us to do so. But as human maybe you look for benefits. What will you get when you wear hijab? That’s a lot. The first is protect you and your body for something unpredictable. For example: A man never imagine if you have really good body shape at least you show it to them, right? Yeah it it true, Well because we wear hijab and cover all the part, no one can see it what your body look like so no one dare to tease you just like a man tease a girl who wear sexy dress. isn’t it? Now you can see that Islam protects women from sexual harrasment, bad guys and other Second, Only your Mahram (relatives) who can you you without hijab. Well there are soem people who can see your hair, Your body though you still wear appropriate dress. Who’s that? Husband, Parents, as her father, grandfather, great-grandfather, etc., and her son, grandson, great-grandson, etc., her paternal and maternal uncles, her brother, brother’s son and sister’s son), or because because of radaa’ah or breastfeeding (such as the brother and husband of the woman who breastfed her), or because they are related by marriage (such as the mother’s husband, the husband’s father, grandfather, etc., and the husband’s son, grandson, etc.). Credit: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/5538/who-are-the-mahrams-in-front-of-whom-a-woman-can-uncover for all the reason above is from the consequences of Iman (believe) that Why We have to wear hijab as a woman. Some people still think if a girl wears hijab means they can not see anything, Yeah it is true. Only some people who can see it. And it makes woman have dignity and “it is not cheap”. Because in the end of the day, We are not living only in this world and don’t chase for this temporary pleasure but you have to think about after you died someday, What makes God decide you to enter the heaven or hell? So if you don’t know a thing, had better you find out first before you become so judgemental. What do you think? you have something to speak up, please just shoot it! Rakkaudella,FJ

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