Mystery / Mysterious That is how people describe when they cannot figure out something/someone. Our ancestors started it. They designed clothes, which allowed us to hide our faces. People in some cultures continue wearing them. What could be the reason? Various. However, one thing common is that it stimulates a curiosity/mystery. What could be under the fabrics? There is limited information about the person. Less than a second, we make a judgment of people by their face. We assume their age, ethnicity, religion, culture, and even languages they speak. Hiding face allows people to look at the parts other than the face itself. It could be the eyes. It could be the necklace that they wear. It could be the hand. It could be the voice. When we focus on something else other than the face, the beauty of people arises. Acid Arab – Gul ‘Abi Februari 28, 2021 Baca selengkapnya
I was confined in four walls made of gold and emeralds,Guarded by a huge diamond dome caressing the PalaceThat Palace belonged to me,But I was not the decider of fate of anythingbeyond the colour of my walls and the the diamonds on my vaseI first wore a hijabWhen I got my first periodsI still remember going for hijab shoppingI was barely 14But ripe enough to get marriedI shuffled through different piecesWith no colour optionsBut only blackAnd not many material options to choose fromI picked one,ReluctantlySo would have been my mother and her motherI entered the shopas a young girlBut returned as a womanWith curious gaze of testosteroneTrying to get a glimpse of ‘the woman behind the veil’Everywhere I wentI stumbled i wondered i fellBut it all never fell in placeMy sister says her best friend was killedLoving an American was her sinStones rest pelted on her bodyWas it an aversion to the dark-darker-darkest SaudiI still lay awake in my bedNothing is too muchFor my headNothing is too muchFor my head. ~T Februari 23, 2021 Baca selengkapnya
The 10 grant-aided schools in Ilorin, the capital of Kwara State, are to remain shut pending announcement of the state government’s position on the use of the Muslim head covering (hijab) in the schools. “This is to avert any breakdown of law and order while the government concludes consultations with relevant stakeholders. Members of the public are urged to remain calm and peaceful. Official pronouncement of government’s position is likely this week,” according to a statement by the Secretary to the Kwara State Government Prof. Mamma Saba Jibril. “The government urges parents, officials and authorities at the affected schools to maintain peace and avoid making comments or doing anything that could cause further misunderstanding and heat up the polity.” Februari 22, 2021 Baca selengkapnya
There are fillers that the Christian Association of Nigeria, CAN, Kwara state chapter may stage a protest should the pronouncement of the government regarding the controversy surrounding the wearing of head cover popularly known as hijab by female students in Christian owned mission schools in the state is not favourable to her. Report has it that the state government will be taking a position regarding the controversial issue any moment from now. The matter had during the week caused uproar within Ilorin metropolis. This medium gathered that a meeting was held by some notable Christian leaders in the state today (Sunday) to discuss the next step to take should government decision over the matter do not favour them. An unconfirmed report said the meeting tagged ‘Special Urgent Prayer Meeting’ came up at a popular church located at Muritala Muhammed road in Ilorin. The meeting was said to witnessed large turnout of believers and resolutions taken at the meeting. The Christian body is said to be demanding for two things; the return of their schools to the original owners and a ban on usage of hijab in mission schools. Amidst the controversy, this medium reliably gathered that series of meetings has been held by the Christian body and the government since Wednesday, but as we speak no agreement was reached between the parties. Against any changes, the state government is expected to make a pronouncement by tomorrow (Monday), should the government decision goes against CAN wish they may likely resolve to a protest by Tuesday. Februari 21, 2021 Baca selengkapnya
The Year Madinah told her story. About being bullied because of her hijab. Februari 14, 2021 Baca selengkapnya
🇸🇪🇷🇮 🇵🇦🇷🇪🇳🇹🇮🇳🇬 MENUMBUHKAN CINTA ANAK PEREMPUAN TERHADAP HIJAB[ 5/5 ] 1⃣0⃣ Mendidik Saat Usia 7 – 10 Tahun 🔹 Seiring dengan diperintahkan shalat, maka wajib diajarkan perkara-perkara yang dapat menjadikan shalat itu sah dan sempurna, di antaranya harus menutup aurat. Ajarkan batasan aurat.🔹 Diajak shalat berjamaah di rumah bersama ibu.🔹 Dijelaskan keutamaan, manfaat, perintah dan ganjaran dari Allah bagi wanita muslimah yang menutup auratnya dan berhijab. 1⃣1⃣ Mendidik Saat Usia 10 – 14 Tahun 🔹 Sudah mulai memberikan ancaman, dan memberikan hukuman apabila tidak mau berhijab, tentunya dengan cara yang hikmah dan ilmiah. Membawakan hadits-hadits berisikan ancaman dan adzab bagi yang menentang.🔹 Mendidiknya lebih intens berkaitan dengan pendidikan jinsiyah, berkaitan dengan haidh, cara mensucikannya, dan lain-lain.🔹 Jelaskan batasan-batasan hubungan laki-laki dan perempuan. Anak mulai dipisahkan pergaulannya di usia ini.🔹 Suburkan rasa malu pada anak dan ajarkan manfaat serta keutamaan berhijab bagi muslimah. Serta ancaman bagi yang menentang.🔹 Bapak harus lebih mendekati lagi sang puteri, agar ada sosok laki-laki yang hadir di dalam hati sang anak. 1⃣2⃣ Mendidik Anak Saat Usia 14 Tahun Ke Atas 🔹 Perlakukan dia seperti wanita dewasa, diantaranya dengan cara memanggil dan berbicara.🔹 Dekati anak dan jadilah sahabat yang dekat baginya, sehingga ia bisa curhat, terbuka dan sebagainya.🔹 Berbagilah pengalaman padanya dengan menceritakan masa muda dan juga problem-problem yang muncul.🔹 Jelaskan nilai seorang wanita itu terletak pada adab, akal dan rasa malunya. Bukan pada keindahan fisiknya. Selesai – 📝 Catatan Saudari @elahdewia ℳـ₰✍✿❁࿐❁✿@abinyasalma 👥 Al-Wasathiyah Wal-I’tidāl✉ TG : https://t.me/alwasathiyah🌐 Blog : alwasathiyah.com🇫 FB : fb.com/wasathiyah📹 Youtube : http://bit.ly/abusalmatube📷 IG : instagram.com/alwasathiyah🔊 Mixlr : mixlr.com/abusalmamuhammad 📎 Sumber :Menumbuhkan Cinta Anak Terhadap HijabSabtu, 6 Juni 2020🎙️Oleh : Ustadz Abu Salma Muhammad حفظه الله تعالى🎬 Sponsored by Mujahadah Parents Projecthttps://www.instagram.com/p/CFq2LlHBHGT/?igshid=kls0cwu2odnq Februari 11, 2021 Baca selengkapnya
Unfolding Blessings; the Sudanese Hijab Unfolding Blessings; Hidden Texts, Witches and the Wicked, Love and Body Armour Setting the Scene Left, bands of richly tooled, leather-bound Hijab (plural; Hijbaat) drape the arm of a Sufi of the Qaadiriyyah order at the weekly Friday dhikr ceremony, at Hamed EL-Nil, Omdurman in 2017. These amulets, believed to be pre-Islamic, possibly Babylonian or Syrian in origin, bear holy writings, sacred names and astrological symbols and are still “prescribed to grant safe passage through life’s changes” for many Sudanese today. Interwoven within rituals that draw on rural medicine and herbology; mysticism, and folklore, they embody one of many expressions of Baraka, or benediction; blessings given by God and found in the person of holy figures, certain acts and “any phrase from an Islamic ceremony or prayer devotion which is believed to be infused with barakah and highly efficacious when retained on one’s person, either in the form of a memorized formula or an amulet…“ (Sanneh 1979:208), as quoted by Osman El-Tom (source below). For more on the Sufi dhikr of Hamid El-Nil, see The Eternal Dance Below, colonial photograph of a Beja tribesman wearing several Hijab. Many believe the term to come from the Arabic root for to veil or protect. Bestowing luck, protection and blessings, Hijabs may be worn discreetly under clothes or as above, joyfully centre stage, acknowledging their intrinsic visual appeal and the craftsmanship in their making. R G Anderson (see below), a colonial surgeon in the Egyptian Medical Corps, noted in 1909 that among those Kordofanis who couldn’t afford the true article, “false charms holding only small blocks of wood instead of writing are worn as a sign of respectability or prosperity and also with the view of hoodwinking not only seen but unseen neighbors.” Indeed, Hijab use has always been creatively interpreted by those who seek them and Anderson explores the more colorful, if not picaresque side of Hijab use in his article “Medical Practices and Superstitions among the People of Kordofan, their treatment of disease and the chief drugs, instruments and appliances in common use”, (source below) Below, another interpretation of barakah; a metal talisman with numbers and letters of mystical significance. Found in Omdurman market in the early 1980s. Personal collection. For more on the symbolic power of jewelry, see “A Necklace of Shells from Distant Seas…” Left, illustration of infant wearing Hijabs from Regional Folk Costumes of the Sudan, by Griselda El Tayib, p126. Abdullah El Tayib recounted “The fekki would be asked to write a small Hijab for the baby. This was called the hafizah or protector. The hafizah was written on Abu Shubbak paper and folded into a rectangular shape and then bound in leather with strings to hang from the baby’s neck on to its chest and abdomen. When this custom was not observed, there would be continual nagging from relatives and visitors. The fekki’s wife and women-folk would be the most critical. Sometimes, however, the parents would delay the hafizah until the child was due for weaning. This would be considered as cheating by the fekki. And he would point out that it was necessary to provide the child with two written amulets, a hafizah and a Hijab…” After remonstrating with the family, the fekki would say “ a curse on you, hypocrites”, and he would write a big amulet which was folded inside a leather cover of cylindrical shape and grumble that the child had been cheated of his hafizah”. El-Tom recounts in 1980s that the cost of a Hijab ranged from one to ten pounds – a not inconsiderable sum, depending on the type of Hijab the status of the healer and his relationship to the client, the financial situation of both, the time of consultation ….(Berti Qur’anic Amulets). Anderson d Februari 07, 2021 Baca selengkapnya
🇸🇪🇷🇮 🇵🇦🇷🇪🇳🇹🇮🇳🇬 MENUMBUHKAN CINTA ANAK PEREMPUAN TERHADAP HIJAB[ 3/5 ] 5⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Belum Menikah (Fase Pra Nikah) Langkah pertama dan utama serta terpenting yaitu:🔹 Bagi wanita hendaknya berhijab dengan hijab syar’i, mencintai hijabnya dan menjadikannya seakan sebagai bagian dari tubuhnya yang tidak boleh dilepas kecuali di rumah atau di tempat yang aman. Kelak diharapkan akan melahirkan puteri yang juga menghargai dan mencintai hijab.🔹 Bagi pria hendaknya mencari wanita (isteri) yang layak untuk dijadikan sebagai ibu bagi anak-anaknya, yang bisa mencintai hijab, menjadi teladan dan bisa mendidik anak di atas keimanan, cinta kasih dan kebahagiaan. 6⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Setelah Menikah (Fase Pasca Nikah) 🔹 Membangun rumah tangga di atas iman, ilmu, cinta kasih, penghormatan dan saling memahami.🔹 Menjalankan hak dan kewajiban masing-masing sebagaimana yang dituntunkan agama kita; artinya suami istri harus sudah belajar menjadi suami dan isteri yang paham hak dan kewajiban masing-masing.🔹 Berdo’a saat akan jima’: “Allahumma jannibna-sy syaithana wa jannibisy syaithana mimma rozaqtana.”🔹 Banyak berdo’a memohon keturunan yang shalih: “Robbi Hablanaa min azwaajina wa dzurriyatina qurrota ‘ayun.” 7⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Hamil (Fase di dalam Kandungan 🔹 Memperbanyak do’a, dzikir, sholawat, tilawah al-qur’an. Hal tersebut akan melahirkan ketenangan, ketentraman, dan juga berpengaruh terhadap janin.🔹 Tetap melazimi hijab dan tidak melepasnya kecuali di dalam rumah/kondisi-kondidi darurat.🔹 Menjaga kesehatan tubuh, tidak terlalu memberatkan diri hingga kelelahan, cukup istirahat, asupan nutrisi cukup.🔹 Suami lebih memperhatikan istri, lebih sabar, lebih penyayang, lebih memaklumi sifat-sifat istri yang labil saat hamil, lebih mengayomi dan memberikan ketenangan. Bersambung, insyaAllah – 📝 Catatan Saudari @elahdewia ℳـ₰✍✿❁࿐❁✿@abinyasalma 📎 Sumber :Kajian : Menumbuhkan Cinta Anak Terhadap HijabSabtu, 6 Juni 2020🎙️Oleh : Ustadz Abu Salma Muhammad حفظه الله تعالى🎬 Sponsored by Mujahadah Parents Projecthttps://www.instagram.com/p/CFq2LlHBHGT/?igshid=kls0cwu2odnq 👥 Al-Wasathiyah Wal-I’tidāl✉ TG : https://t.me/alwasathiyah🌐 Blog : alwasathiyah.com🇫 FB : fb.com/wasathiyah📹 Youtube : http://bit.ly/abusalmatube📷 IG : instagram.com/alwasathiyah🔊 Mixlr : mixlr.com/abusalmamuhammad Februari 03, 2021 Baca selengkapnya