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🇸‌🇪‌🇷‌🇮‌ 🇵‌🇦‌🇷‌🇪‌🇳‌🇹‌🇮‌🇳‌🇬‌ MENUMBUHKAN CINTA ANAK PEREMPUAN TERHADAP HIJAB[ 3/5 ] 5⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Belum Menikah (Fase Pra Nikah) Langkah pertama dan utama serta terpenting yaitu:🔹 Bagi wanita hendaknya berhijab dengan hijab syar’i, mencintai hijabnya dan menjadikannya seakan sebagai bagian dari tubuhnya yang tidak boleh dilepas kecuali di rumah atau di tempat yang aman. Kelak diharapkan akan melahirkan puteri yang juga menghargai dan mencintai hijab.🔹 Bagi pria hendaknya mencari wanita (isteri) yang layak untuk dijadikan sebagai ibu bagi anak-anaknya, yang bisa mencintai hijab, menjadi teladan dan bisa mendidik anak di atas keimanan, cinta kasih dan kebahagiaan. 6⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Setelah Menikah (Fase Pasca Nikah) 🔹 Membangun rumah tangga di atas iman, ilmu, cinta kasih, penghormatan dan saling memahami.🔹 Menjalankan hak dan kewajiban masing-masing sebagaimana yang dituntunkan agama kita; artinya suami istri harus sudah belajar menjadi suami dan isteri yang paham hak dan kewajiban masing-masing.🔹 Berdo’a saat akan jima’: “Allahumma jannibna-sy syaithana wa jannibisy syaithana mimma rozaqtana.”🔹 Banyak berdo’a memohon keturunan yang shalih: “Robbi Hablanaa min azwaajina wa dzurriyatina qurrota ‘ayun.” 7⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Hamil (Fase di dalam Kandungan 🔹 Memperbanyak do’a, dzikir, sholawat, tilawah al-qur’an. Hal tersebut akan melahirkan ketenangan, ketentraman, dan juga berpengaruh terhadap janin.🔹 Tetap melazimi hijab dan tidak melepasnya kecuali di dalam rumah/kondisi-kondidi darurat.🔹 Menjaga kesehatan tubuh, tidak terlalu memberatkan diri hingga kelelahan, cukup istirahat, asupan nutrisi cukup.🔹 Suami lebih memperhatikan istri, lebih sabar, lebih penyayang, lebih memaklumi sifat-sifat istri yang labil saat hamil, lebih mengayomi dan memberikan ketenangan. Bersambung, insyaAllah – 📝 Catatan Saudari @elahdewia ℳـ₰✍​✿❁࿐❁✿​@abinyasalma 📎 Sumber :Kajian : Menumbuhkan Cinta Anak Terhadap HijabSabtu, 6 Juni 2020🎙️Oleh : Ustadz Abu Salma Muhammad حفظه الله تعالى🎬 Sponsored by Mujahadah Parents Projecthttps://www.instagram.com/p/CFq2LlHBHGT/?igshid=kls0cwu2odnq 👥 Al-Wasathiyah Wal-I’tidāl✉ TG :  https://t.me/alwasathiyah🌐 Blog : alwasathiyah.com‌🇫 FB : fb.com/wasathiyah📹 Youtube : http://bit.ly/abusalmatube📷 IG : instagram.com/alwasathiyah🔊 Mixlr : mixlr.com/abusalmamuhammad

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There are fillers that the Christian Association of Nigeria, CAN, Kwara state chapter may stage a protest should the pronouncement of the government regarding the controversy surrounding the wearing of head cover popularly known as hijab by female students in Christian owned mission schools in the state is not favourable to her. Report has it that the state government will be taking a position regarding the controversial issue any moment from now. The matter had during the week caused uproar within Ilorin metropolis. This medium gathered that a meeting was held by some notable Christian leaders in the state today (Sunday) to discuss the next step to take should government decision over the matter do not favour them. An unconfirmed report said the meeting tagged ‘Special Urgent Prayer Meeting’ came up at a popular church located at Muritala Muhammed road in Ilorin. The meeting was said to witnessed large turnout of believers and resolutions taken at the meeting. The Christian body is said to be demanding for two things; the return of their schools to the original owners and a ban on usage of hijab in mission schools. Amidst the controversy, this medium reliably gathered that series of meetings has been held by the Christian body and the government since Wednesday, but as we speak no agreement was reached between the parties. Against any changes, the state government is expected to make a pronouncement by tomorrow (Monday), should the government decision goes against CAN wish they may likely resolve to a protest by Tuesday.

I was confined in four walls made of gold and emeralds,Guarded by a huge diamond dome caressing the PalaceThat Palace belonged to me,But I was not the decider of fate of anythingbeyond the colour of my walls and the the diamonds on my vaseI first wore a hijabWhen I got my first periodsI still remember going for hijab shoppingI was barely 14But ripe enough to get marriedI shuffled through different piecesWith no colour optionsBut only blackAnd not many material options to choose fromI picked one,ReluctantlySo would have been my mother and her motherI entered the shopas a young girlBut returned as a womanWith curious gaze of testosteroneTrying to get a glimpse of ‘the woman behind the veil’Everywhere I wentI stumbled i wondered i fellBut it all never fell in placeMy sister says her best friend was killedLoving an American was her sinStones rest pelted on her bodyWas it an aversion to the dark-darker-darkest SaudiI still lay awake in my bedNothing is too muchFor my headNothing is too muchFor my head. ~T