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🇸‌🇪‌🇷‌🇮‌ 🇵‌🇦‌🇷‌🇪‌🇳‌🇹‌🇮‌🇳‌🇬‌ MENUMBUHKAN CINTA ANAK PEREMPUAN TERHADAP HIJAB[ 3/5 ] 5⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Belum Menikah (Fase Pra Nikah) Langkah pertama dan utama serta terpenting yaitu:🔹 Bagi wanita hendaknya berhijab dengan hijab syar’i, mencintai hijabnya dan menjadikannya seakan sebagai bagian dari tubuhnya yang tidak boleh dilepas kecuali di rumah atau di tempat yang aman. Kelak diharapkan akan melahirkan puteri yang juga menghargai dan mencintai hijab.🔹 Bagi pria hendaknya mencari wanita (isteri) yang layak untuk dijadikan sebagai ibu bagi anak-anaknya, yang bisa mencintai hijab, menjadi teladan dan bisa mendidik anak di atas keimanan, cinta kasih dan kebahagiaan. 6⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Setelah Menikah (Fase Pasca Nikah) 🔹 Membangun rumah tangga di atas iman, ilmu, cinta kasih, penghormatan dan saling memahami.🔹 Menjalankan hak dan kewajiban masing-masing sebagaimana yang dituntunkan agama kita; artinya suami istri harus sudah belajar menjadi suami dan isteri yang paham hak dan kewajiban masing-masing.🔹 Berdo’a saat akan jima’: “Allahumma jannibna-sy syaithana wa jannibisy syaithana mimma rozaqtana.”🔹 Banyak berdo’a memohon keturunan yang shalih: “Robbi Hablanaa min azwaajina wa dzurriyatina qurrota ‘ayun.” 7⃣ Mendidik Semenjak Hamil (Fase di dalam Kandungan 🔹 Memperbanyak do’a, dzikir, sholawat, tilawah al-qur’an. Hal tersebut akan melahirkan ketenangan, ketentraman, dan juga berpengaruh terhadap janin.🔹 Tetap melazimi hijab dan tidak melepasnya kecuali di dalam rumah/kondisi-kondidi darurat.🔹 Menjaga kesehatan tubuh, tidak terlalu memberatkan diri hingga kelelahan, cukup istirahat, asupan nutrisi cukup.🔹 Suami lebih memperhatikan istri, lebih sabar, lebih penyayang, lebih memaklumi sifat-sifat istri yang labil saat hamil, lebih mengayomi dan memberikan ketenangan. Bersambung, insyaAllah – 📝 Catatan Saudari @elahdewia ℳـ₰✍​✿❁࿐❁✿​@abinyasalma 📎 Sumber :Kajian : Menumbuhkan Cinta Anak Terhadap HijabSabtu, 6 Juni 2020🎙️Oleh : Ustadz Abu Salma Muhammad حفظه الله تعالى🎬 Sponsored by Mujahadah Parents Projecthttps://www.instagram.com/p/CFq2LlHBHGT/?igshid=kls0cwu2odnq 👥 Al-Wasathiyah Wal-I’tidāl✉ TG :  https://t.me/alwasathiyah🌐 Blog : alwasathiyah.com‌🇫 FB : fb.com/wasathiyah📹 Youtube : http://bit.ly/abusalmatube📷 IG : instagram.com/alwasathiyah🔊 Mixlr : mixlr.com/abusalmamuhammad

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Longlisted for CBC’s Nonfiction Prize, 2019 A man once glanced down at my friend’s little girls and he said, “So beautiful! Will they have to cover up like you when they’re older? Such a shame.” My friend glared at the man and said, “Of course” and guided her children away from the sympathetic shake of his head.  A little girl at the park came up to me and asked, “Do you get hot in that thing?” referring to my headscarf and I smiled because I had caught her staring earlier and I said, “No, not really!” And she just nodded and looked some more so I added, “It’s a light material, see? Very breezy” and I guess she was relieved because she nodded again and smiled and skipped back to her friends. After that I used the end of my scarf to wipe my sweaty forehead because damn, did I get hot in this thing.  The interviewer at the internship I was applying to looked me up and down, nodded towards me and said, “We love to have people from all types of backgrounds. It’s good to see diversity in the workplace,” ultimately telling me that I was hired because I was different and so when I sat at my desk a week later with the other interns I wondered what I was doing sitting there with qualified hires with more experience than me. A lanky boy with clunky glasses at a summer camp I volunteered at argued with a chubby-cheeked kid and said, “No, my dad says that not all Muslims are terrorists!” and the cheeky boy replied, “Well my mom said they are” and then they both turned to me and asked, “Excuse me, are all Muslims terrorists?” as politely as you please and I hesitated as I looked for the words to speak on behalf of a nation and I said, “No, not all Muslims are terrorists. There are good people and bad people in the world. Sometimes they happen to have a certain religion.” The chubby kid nodded convinced and the skinny boy pushed up his glasses and said, “Told you,” and they went back to their table and took out their lunch while I held back a laugh that bubbled over my sadness because if only people worked more like children. The white haired man throwing disapproving glances from the other side of the bus scowled when I reached too late for the yellow line that signalled a stop. The bus jerked and I nearly tripped and he spewed curse words under his breath. And as I thanked the bus driver and stepped out into the snow, my chest tightened in anger and fear as I wondered if those words were directed at me specifically or if they were the mutters of a grumpy old man who lost his trust in a world so different than the one he knew. A fellow traveller waiting in line to wash dishes at a campsite in Vancouver grinned at me and asked, “Where you from?” and I replied, “Toronto.” She paused for a moment, hesitance playing on her parted lips and I knew what was coming next. “But what’s your background?” she asked and I sighed and recited the words I had memorized for these moments when I was asked to repeat my family’s history claiming my right to be here. And then without feeling the need to do the same, the lady with her arms full of dishes smiled, nodded and turned on the tap in the sink. My reflection stared back at me in the mirror as I leaned against the counter in the women’s restroom, exhausted and perplexed. She stared with red rimmed eyes as I unwrapped my scarf and let it slide off my head, my matted hair let loose. The girl in the mirror said to me, “What if you walked out, just like that?” and I glanced at the door and back at the mirror and I thought how easy would it be with the weight lifted of my shoulders, to walk in a crowd blended in, to be looked at in a way completely opposite of how I was usually noticed? I ran a hand through my hair and my arms trembled and inside I was so tired, so tired. And the girl in the mirror looked at me, taunting, “It would be so easy, so easy.” Then I stood up straight and I opened my mouth and I s

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